“Good job” has become cliché among parents today. Ten year olds finishing their dinner and teens who finish their homework on time now garner praise. Without the presence of real challenge in their lives, kids begin to settle for merely surviving and expect praise for doing it. Focus your praise on acknowledging the effort that comes with challenging achievements.
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