How do you encourage your child's passion?

Middle school paves the way for a journey in self discovery. Kids often find their life's passion through the encouragement of parents, teachers, coaches and friends. After six years in elementary school, many soon-to-be adolescents know what they are good at and what pursuits might be better left for someone else to to conquer. With a developing sense of self concept kids are ripe for the exploration of a passion that gels with  their strengths and even a few ideas that might be outside the realm of what they thought possible.

Parents hold the key to inspiring the pursuit of a passion. Middle school isn't the time where many kids make career decisions, but it is the place where people learn to develop passion and the energy it takes to pursue something (a hobby, interest, etc.) with true excitement. Your child's desire to become an actress, singer, dancer, artist may not become their life pursuit. Kids choose careers like favorite ice cream flavors, what looks good today may be just the flavor of the month. Next month the selection changes. One way to encourage your child interests is by seeking out adults who actively pursue these interests.

Mentors, coaches and professionals in the field have a different perspective that parents can't offer. Finding opportunities for your child to engage with people who share their interests creates a wonderful environment for their continued growth. The summer months can give kids a chance to connect with adults during times that are normally reserved for school. Finding these key motivators in your child's life takes time. Start today by looking for a few key people who are firmly rooted in a field that your child enjoys. From there, guide your child in either creating an introductory letter or making a phone call that will hopefully lead to a sit down with one of folks on your list. The goal of this interaction is to connect your child with a mentor, potentially for a short interview, to explore questions of interest to your child. Many of these informal interviews lead to internships or long-term mentoring relationships where children truly learn about the energy and commitment needed to achieve their passion.

Inspiration starts at home. Your budding artist may eventually join life in the corporate sector. Regardless of where they find their passion in the years to come, help them to pursue this life with desire and enthusiasm.

Comments

[Jason W. Womack, MEd, MA]

Joe,

GREAT post here...I added a bit of my own reflection, using this as a jump-off point.

http://www.jasonwomackblog.com/working_outwhile_youre_ou/2008/06/keeping-going-.html